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October 15, 2006
"He jests at scars that never felt a wound" - why are some so eager to dismiss the Johns Hopkins study that showed 650,000 Iraqis have died since we invaded their country?
From the Philadelphia Daily News: It doesn't take much to be empathetic. All it takes is remembering that the people who suffer the effects of war, genocide, disease and poverty are people just like those we love and protect. Without delving too deeply into the matter of sin, may I suggest that few of us are bad. Don't get me wrong. I know evil exists and all of us could draw up a list of bad people. As a former member of the House Select Committee on Assassinations, I'd nominate Lee Harvey Oswald and James Earl Ray, for two. But for the most part, nine out of 10 people we meet are not bad. Most folks are decent human beings trying to do the right thing. Some of us accomplish that, others don't. It can be hard to know what to do. Remember the scene from "Hotel Rwanda" when a videographer screens his footage of a massacre in Rwanda? "If people see this footage," he observes, "they'll say, 'Oh, my God, that's terrible,' and they'll go on eating their dinners." Does that make us bad people? Not necessarily. But it could mean that we are people who have forgotten how to care. Have we become a generation without empathy? Today, there are many human-made tragedies that demand our attention. The genocide in Rwanda has been replaced by the genocide in Darfur. A report says 650,000 Iraqi civilians have been killed since the invasion of Iraq three years ago. As of this week, 2,754 American military personnel have been killed in action in Iraq. Here at home there are many crying out. Along our Gulf Coast, the destruction caused by Hurricanes Katrina and Rita has not been cleaned up and thousands have been unable to return to their homes. Working people in America who earn the federally mandated minimum wage will never get out of poverty. And the rising temperature of the globe are melting the glaciers and many scientists worry that the rising ocean will sweep us away. I'm not unaware that some people say opposition to poverty and war and pollution are a liberal agenda. But don't listen to them. Listen instead to what our greatest religious leaders have taught us. As a Methodist clergyman, I can't get Jesus' words out of my head: Love your enemy. Pray for those who abuse you. Love God, and love your neighbor as yourself. Turn the other cheek. One way to discover empathy is to know the people who need your help. I've prayed with Gold Star Mothers outside President Bush's ranch in Crawford, Texas, while they waited in vain for the president to tell them why their sons had to die in war. I've walked through the tsunami and earthquake ruins of South Asia. I've peered into empty shells of houses in flood-ravaged New Orleans. In 2002, while on a church mission, I attended a New Year's Eve service at a Presbyterian church in Baghdad where I met Caroline, a 4-year old Iraqi. She was like all 4-year-olds - giggly, flirtatious, and trusting. Her picture hangs near the door to my office. Today, when I hear of bombings and violence in Baghdad, I think of her. I wonder if she is all right. For me, she is the face of Iraq. It doesn't take much to be empathetic. All it takes is remembering that the people who suffer the effects of war, genocide, disease and poverty are people just like those we love and protect. It's never, ever too late to rise to the call of greatness. You may not make a huge dent in overcoming the tragedies around us, but if enough of us make small dents, together we will eventually overcome. Empathy is a good place to begin. |
"You've got to have something to eat and a little love in your life before you can hold still for any damn body's sermon on how to behave." ~ Billie Holiday
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